Break Up Pain - Why You Wait To Cool Down

After a break up it's important to have some time apart. You'll find it recommended it be at least 1 month and maybe more. In fact, as long as 6 months may not be too late for you if you do other steps correctly to get your ex back, but before that, why can't you call them or contact them now?

One of the biggest reasons is to reflect on the relationship. Find out why it went wrong and figure out the causes for the falling out. You don't want to make the same mistakes again and end up right back where you are, so it's important to evaluate what got you to this point.

This will also give your ex a chance to do the same thing. They can figure out what went wrong and how to fix it. When you two meet again you both should have new views on your relationship and can work to fix it, put it back together, or make it something more than it was.

This time is also needed so you can find who you are as an individual again. To also show that after the break up your world didn't end with them. It can be used as a time to show your ex that you're still the strong person they fell in love with.

This site can help you get the rest of the way to having your lover back.